I guess it all depends on how you see the world

[Lucille]

When I click on my 'user cp' the first thing I see is the infractions I've racked up, rather than the thank yous for good posts which are placed below.
Me? I think it is better to remind people of the good things they have said rather than their shortcomings.

[_Sam_]

you can minimize the list of infractions so that it doesnt show them at all, lolll. Otherwise, I dunno....

[Stargazer]

Well I don't have any infractions (though I don't know how I've managed to escape it with all the trouble I've stirred up around here). But if I did, I would not want to be reminded of them every time I look at my user cp. That's usually where you go to see who gave you rep so you can feel all warm and fuzzy inside. I think you should sue someone. lol

But you can always look at it as like a tattoo or something--a sign that you were a "bad girl" once or twice, and wear it proudly!

[X-Factor]

Who cares?

[mpgt]

Well Lucille cares, and she's not wrong for feeling that way. I'm not sure what can be done about it, except to say that she's a positive influence, and a great asset to the site. Infractions are just warnings if you think about it, and they don't mean you're a bad person.

[Stargazer]

I care. There are some things that make people feel targeted or like the environment is less than friendly. Those things can add up and make a person want to leave (been there). Of all people who I would not want to leave, it's Lucille. But anyway, X, I know your sense of humor, and I know you weren't trying to be insensitive.