Don't ever think yourself a bad person for all this Scott. I know you only did what was best for you and your family and your animals. I am going through a similar situation right now and while I don't know whether my whole collection will have to go, I am very likely looking at a downsize and I know how hard it is to deal with. The right thing to do is not always the easiest.
And I don't want a refund whether you end up getting that milk or not, Scotty boy. Even if you don't, put the money it towards something else, or donate it to your church. I trust you to put it to good use.
For now, take care, and I hope to see you around again someday.