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DUSTIN, SLOW DOWN!!!!!!!! DIDN'T YOU JUST GO THROUGH A DIVORCE?? BUDDY, I'M IN THE MILITARY AND TRYING TO START A MARRIAGE IN THE MILITARY ISN'T EASY!!!! IT'S CORRUPT!.....Listen, in the military, that wedding band doesn't mean squat to most guys! She better be THE ONE because it's very easy for her to get a taste of that travel life and meet somebody else. I'm not saying do it but wait until you're in before jumping into that. Listen, I know what having that comfort of a woman is like. That's why I got married. It's not always about being married. Geez dude, I'm just trying to look out for you. What are you two going to do when you get deployed for 6 months somewhere? Have you talked about that? Especially since you just got a divorce, you'll be over in Iraq or something wondering what she's doing back in the states. I've been there. Except my wife was cheating on me while I was away. It's F'ed up trust me and it hurts. I'm not saying you don't know what it's like to be married and feel that, but I am saying you don't know what it's like to be married in the military, just like I don't know what it's like to be married as a civvie. Someday, when I can trust woman kind again and if I can find that ONE that is worthy of my time like you said (and I know what you mean) I look forward to settling down again. But every one I've dated so far just hasn't cut it yet. Just take it slow bro, and best of luck. If you ever want someone to talk to or got any ?'s you can email me at tha_deuce_2000@yahoo.com. And if anybody else wants to email me anytime just to say sup feel free. glad to hear life's going for ya. just like me...it just goes. Enjoy the military, you're enlisting and I'm getting out....weird huh? [img]modules/Forum/images/smiles/icon_lol.gif[/img]
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