Well my surinames have been hooking up since 5-01-06 and now they have seperate about a week ago, and the female has burrowed herself in the substrate, these are some crapy pics

should i seperate the male or put the female in a very large tub with newspaper?
better for droping?
Let me know and i have heard for reds the best temp is 82-85 should i change that ? i know to raise the temp later on, and when should i feed the female. I have read a lot but want to hear from someone personaly.
THANKS
Nate